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How I spent my morning

I'd like to start out by saying that I have a fantastic extended family. I am one of 14 grandchildren ranging in age 40 something to 10. When everyone gets together, it's quite a crowd and we have a great time. I love my family.

However, a little over a year ago, one of my cousins got arrested. He got into trouble and ended up in the Leake County jail. His court date was this morning. I went. Not once in my life have I ever stepped foot into a courtroom. The only experience with a courtroom that I have is from Law and Order. (I must say that it's not that far off, just not so dramatic.) Well, I watched as person after person pled guilty to the crime that they were accused of. The judge asked them questions that made them very uncomfortable. It ran the gammit--drugs, rape, assault in prison. As I sat there and watched the judge pronounce sentences, I thought I'd be OK when they brought my cousin out. When they brought him out, he looked square at me. He mouthed "Hey Mandy." I just started crying. As I listened to the questions from the judge and his answers, I just kept on crying. The judge pronounced a sentence of 15 years and $50,000 fine. As the baliff took him out, he turned around and looked at me and waved. I just lost it. My plan was to stay around a little longer, but I couldn't. That was one of the hardest things I've ever sat through, because I don't know that I'll ever see him again. When/if he does get out, he won't have a normal life, ever.

I know next to nothing about the justice system, but I got a crash course today. I don't know a lot, but more than I did when I woke up this morning and more than I ever wanted to know. Like I said, I have a great family. This was a blow to everyone, but we've kept together and been supportive of his immediate family. I know that it will continue.

Please keep my aunt and uncle in your prayers. It's especially hard on them. This was their child, no matter what he's done.

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